A modern ceremony with emotional clarity.
The Modern
Effortless luxury energy. Modern by design.
The Modern is a ceremony for couples who want the moment to feel clean, intentional, and unmistakably elevated.
Not performative. Not templated. Not tradition for tradition’s sake.
Just a modern, inclusive wedding ceremony — non-religious by default — delivered with calm authority, refined language, and a sense of editorial restraint that lets the emotion land without being forced.
The Essence
Think: crisp structure, soft confidence, and a room that feels held.
The Modern is designed to move like a well-shot editorial: considered pacing, clear beats, and a tone that feels contemporary and grounded — never cheesy, never chaotic.
This is for couples who care about:
language
atmosphere
energy in the room
and a ceremony that feels like the point, not the prelude.
Who The Modern Is For
The Modern is a strong fit for:
Couples seeking a modern wedding celebrant in Melbourne (and beyond)
People who want a ceremony that feels curated: stylish, human, and quietly powerful
Couples who value premium experience: decisive planning, clear boundaries, calm delivery
LGBTQIA+ couples who want inclusive language handled as a baseline, not a discussion
What This Ceremony Feels Like
The room is settled. People are listening. Everyone knows what’s happening.
There’s warmth, but no waffle. There’s humour, but it’s intelligent and well-timed. The moment feels intimate and elevated at the same time — like it belongs exactly where it is.
And when it’s over, guests don’t say “that was nice.”
They say: “That felt like them.”
What’s Included
Ceremony Direction
A guided planning process that locks in:
the tone (modern, soft, bold, intimate — yours)
the ceremony flow (clean, paced, unforced)
the key beats that matter most
Up to two structured planning meetings are included — designed to create clarity quickly and keep the process calm.
Legal Preparation, Without Overwhelm
Clear guidance on legal requirements and paperwork (including what must be completed and when). Post-ceremony lodgement is handled properly and promptly.
A Ceremony Writen For Real People
A bespoke ceremony script designed to feel contemporary and personal — inclusive language as standard, non-religious by default, and structured so it lands cleanly in the room.
This isn’t a stitched-together template. It’s written as one cohesive piece — with your relationship at the centre.
Vendor Alignment
Light-touch alignment with key vendors (where relevant) to keep the ceremony cohesive: timing, cues, and the overall rhythm.
Not wedding planning. Not running the event.
Just keeping the moment clean and coordinated.
The Professionally Fabulous Standard
The Modern includes the Married By A Teddy Professionally Fabulous Standard: professional sound, digital resilience, calm coordination, and support in the lead-up.
(Everything that makes the day feel effortless is handled in the background.)
The Next Step
If you’re looking for a Melbourne wedding celebrant who combines professionalism with personality — and who will hold your ceremony with care, clarity, and confidence — The Modern may be the perfect fit.
There’s no pressure. Just a conversation to see if this feels right.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Absolutely — I take care of all the legal requirements and paperwork for your wedding, so you can focus on the joyful stuff ✨
As an authorised Australian marriage celebrant, I ensure your ceremony is 100% legally compliant from start to finish. This includes:
Guiding you through the Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM) and confirming it’s completed correctly and on time
Checking and recording the required identity documents
Including all mandatory legal wording in your ceremony (seamlessly woven in, not awkwardly announced)
Lodging your marriage paperwork with Births, Deaths and Marriages after the ceremony
Ensuring everything meets the requirements of the Marriage Act 1961
I’ll clearly explain what you need to do, when you need to do it, and I’ll keep track of deadlines so nothing is missed. No legal jargon, no stress, no guesswork.
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No. Personal vows are completely optional. You can write your own, use modern templates, or choose not to include personal vows at all.
If you do want to include vows, you’ll receive the Married By A Teddy Vow Writing Guide to support you if you decide to write your own.
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No. My ceremonies are modern and non-religious. Cultural or personal elements can be included if they feel right for you and meet legal requirements.
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Up to 18 months ahead is ideal, subject to availability. Popular dates and peak wedding seasons tend to book quickly, and availability can change at any time.
To avoid missing out on your preferred date, it’s best to enquire early and secure your booking with a booking fee as soon as you’re ready.
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Yes — as long as they’re legal and feel right for you. I don’t do tradition for tradition’s sake, and I’ll help shape ideas that genuinely reflect you.
I’ll help explore ideas, suggest possibilities, and keep sparking creativity until something lands that makes your ceremony feel genuinely perfect for you.
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I create modern, non-religious ceremonies that feel relaxed, inclusive, and authentic — never stiff or performative.
The Wedding Toolkit
Not quite ready to enquire yet? Explore the Wedding Toolkit — practical advice, inclusive guidance, and celebrant insights to help you plan a ceremony that feels right.