WEDDING TOOLKIT!
Planning your wedding should feel exciting, not overwhelming—and we’re here to make sure of that. Our Wedding Toolkit is your go-to resource for everything you need to know about planning a unique, unforgettable ceremony. From expert tips on writing your vows to advice on choosing the perfect wedding location, we’ve got you covered.
At Married By A Teddy, we believe in creating ceremonies that truly reflect who you are as a couple. Whether you're planning a fun, themed celebration, an intimate elopement, or an adventurous wedding day, you'll find inspiration, guidance, and all the best practice tips right here.
With a focus on inclusivity, creativity, and personalisation, our blog will help you bring your dream ceremony to life—no matter how quirky or traditional you want it to be. Plus, with Teddy's Take and Teddy's Tip sprinkled throughout, you'll get personal insights from our very own Teddy Bell on how to make your wedding day not just special, but Professionally Fabulous.
VINES AND VIBES: OUR TOP PICKS FOR SAYING “I DO” IN STYLE
Choosing a wedding venue in Melbourne can feel overwhelming — but we’ve got two dazzling picks that never miss. We’ve recently been featured as one of the Best Wedding Celebrants in Melbourne by the stunning Vogue Ballroom and Vines of the Yarra Valley: think vineyard views, grand ballrooms, and unforgettable vibes.
FINDING THE SWEET SPOT: HOW MANY GUESTS SHOULD YOU INVITE TO YOUR WEDDING CEREMONY?
Struggling to decide how many guests to invite to your wedding? Whether you're planning a cosy micro-wedding or a large, lively celebration, the perfect guest list is all about what feels right for you. In this guide, we’ll help you find that sweet spot – from budget considerations to creating the atmosphere you dream of.
WHY CHOOSE MARRIED BY A TEDDY TO PERFORM YOUR WEDDING CEREMONY?
Finding the right celebrant is more than ticking a box—it’s about finding someone who gets you. At Married By A Teddy, we’re all about creating ceremonies that reflect you—whether that’s scaling a mountain for your vows or celebrating love with a Star Wars-themed extravaganza.
SO YOU WANT TO GET MARRIED. NOW WHAT? A GUIDE TO PLANNING A WEDDING
Just engaged and wondering what’s next? Our wedding planning guide walks you through every step—from celebrating your engagement to crafting the perfect ceremony. Whether you’re dreaming of a grand celebration or something totally unique, we’re here to help make your day unforgettable (and totally you).
THE ROLE OF THE CELEBRANT IN LGBTQIA+ WEDDINGS: WHAT TO EXPECT AND HOW TO CHOOSE THE RIGHT ONE
Your wedding isn’t just a day—it’s a celebration of love, identity, and the journey you’ve taken together. For LGBTQIA+ couples, choosing the right celebrant is about more than legalities; it’s about finding someone who truly sees you and celebrates your unique love story.
From respecting pronouns to crafting a personalised, inclusive ceremony, the right celebrant creates a space where you and your guests feel seen and cherished.
10 EXPERT TIPS FOR YOUR WEDDING DAY TO HAVE THE TIME OF YOUR LIFE
Your wedding day should be as fabulous as your love story! From starting the day with calm, positive vibes to dancing the night away, these 10 expert tips will help you stay relaxed, energised, and fully present. Whether you're planning a grand celebration or something uniquely intimate, embrace the joy, let go of the stress, and make every moment unforgettable.
UNDERSTANDING THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LEGAL AND SYMBOLIC CEREMONIES: WHICH IS RIGHT FOR YOUR WEDDING?
A legal ceremony makes things official in the eyes of the law, while a symbolic ceremony allows for total creative freedom – no paperwork, just pure love and celebration. Whether you're drawn to the formality of a legal ceremony or the personal touch of a symbolic one, understanding the benefits of each can help shape the perfect day for you.
NON-BINARY WEDDING ATTIRE: HOW TO DRESS FOR A DAY THAT CELEBRATES YOU
Your wedding day is a celebration of love—and your identity deserves to shine through every part of it, including what you wear. For non-binary and gender non-conforming individuals, finding the perfect wedding attire can feel like rewriting the rules—and that’s exactly the point. This guide gives tips for expressing your authentic self through fashion, from mixing androgynous styles to working with LGBTQIA+ inclusive designers.
THE ULTIMATE GUIDE TO ELOPEMENT CEREMONIES: PLANNING AN INTIMATE WEDDING EXPERIENCE
Elopements are no longer about secrecy—they’re about creating an intimate, meaningful celebration that reflects your love story. Elopements offer the freedom to craft a wedding day that feels authentically you. This guide explores everything from choosing the perfect location to personalising your vows, ensuring your day is filled with joy, adventure, and love.
PERSONALISED WEDDING VOWS: HOW TO WRITE WORDS THAT CAPTURE YOUR LOVE STORY
Your wedding vows are more than just words—they’re a reflection of your love story and the promises you’re making for the future. Crafting personalised vows can feel daunting, but it’s also an incredible opportunity to make your ceremony unforgettable. In this guide, we’ll walk you through the process step by step, from reflecting on your relationship to choosing the right tone and structure. With real examples and inclusive templates, you’ll have everything you need to create vows that feel authentic, meaningful, and uniquely yours.
MY FAMILY DISAPPROVES APPROVE OF MY LGBTQIA+ WEDDING. WHAT DO I DO?
Planning your wedding should be a joyful experience, but for some LGBTQIA+ couples, family disapproval can add unexpected heartache. If you’re facing resistance from loved ones, know that your love is valid—and your wedding day can still be filled with joy and authenticity. This guide explores how to navigate difficult family dynamics, set boundaries, and lean on your chosen family to create a celebration that reflects your relationship.
HOW TO INCORPORATE DIETARY REQUIREMENTS INTO YOUR WEDDING MENU
Craft an inclusive wedding menu that delights every guest by accommodating all dietary needs. From vegan and gluten-free options to allergen-friendly dishes, learn how to create a celebration where everyone feels valued and catered for. Discover expert tips on working with inclusive caterers, supporting LGBTQIA+ food vendors, and adding interactive food stations that make dining fun and stress-free.
8 WAYS TO MAKE YOUR WEDDING DAY TRULY MEMORABLE
Make your wedding day unforgettable with 8 creative ideas from Married By A Teddy. Discover how to craft a unique, meaningful celebration that reflects your love story, from choosing a signature fragrance to adding surprise elements and personal touches. Whether planning an intimate elopement or a grand event, these tips will help make your day memorable for you and your guests.
CHOOSING THE RIGHT CELEBRANT: WHAT TO LOOK FOR IN A MODERN WEDDING OFFICIANT
Choosing the right wedding celebrant is key to creating a ceremony that reflects your unique love story. Learn how to find an inclusive, professional officiant who personalises every detail—ensuring your day is meaningful, memorable, and stress-free. From handling legalities to crafting heartfelt, custom scripts, discover what to look for in a celebrant who makes you feel seen, valued, and celebrated.
BREAKING WEDDING NORMS: WHY NON-TRADITIONAL CEREMONIES ARE ON THE RISE
Ceremonies have long moved past the traditional white dress, formal vows and standard rituals such as readings and dove releases. Non-traditional weddings are more than a trend—they’re a powerful statement of individuality, freedom, and inclusivity.
Check out this guide full of ideas on how to create a wedding that reflects your story.
HOW TO DECIDE WHO TO INVITE TO YOUR WEDDING CEREMONY
Deciding who to invite to your wedding can be a balancing act of joy, logistics, and family dynamics, but it’s crucial to creating the perfect atmosphere for your day. Where do you start with balancing venue size while navigating costs, family dynamics and personal relationships with friends? These tips will help you make choices that stay true to your wedding vision without breaking relationships.
PLANNING YOUR LGBTQIA+ INCLUSIVE WEDDING: LOVE BEYOND LABELS
Planning an LGBTQIA+ inclusive wedding is about celebrating love authentically, free from limits or labels. This guide will help you choose a celebrant who understands and honours your story, navigate family dynamics and curate a vendor team that aligns with your unique vision.
UNIQUE AND MEMORABLE GIFT IDEAS FOR YOUR WEDDING GUESTS
Your wedding day isn’t just about celebrating your love—it’s also an opportunity to thank those who have supported and celebrated with you throughout your relationship.
But why settle for generic gifts when you can give your guests something unique, memorable, and reflective of your wedding’s vibe?
Check out this wedding favour guide.
INCORPORATING PETS INTO YOUR WEDDING CEREMONY: IDEAS FOR ANIMAL LOVERS
For many couples, pets are family, and including them in your wedding is a wonderful way to celebrate your bond. Your furry friends deserve a special place on your big day.
This guide shares creative ideas and practical tips—from walking down the aisle as a “Best Dog” to creating a paw print keepsake—to help you include pets in your celebration safely and comfortably.
CHOOSING LGBTQIA+ INCLUSIVE MUSIC FOR YOUR WEDDING CEREMONY
Your wedding music is more than just a soundtrack—it’s the heartbeat of your celebration. Choosing LGBTQIA+ inclusive music is a powerful way to honour your journey together.
This guide offers tips on selecting songs by LGBTQIA+ artists, choosing gender-neutral lyrics, and crafting a playlist that celebrates love in all its forms.
