I DO, I DO

The Legal-Only Wedding Ceremony

I Do, I Do is a legal-only wedding ceremony for couples who want to be married properly, respectfully, and without unnecessary extras.

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What is the I Do, I Do Ceremony?

This is a legal-only ceremony that includes the minimum elements required for a marriage to be legally recognised in Australia.

This option is designed for couples who value clarity and efficiency, and who want the legal requirements handled calmly and correctly — without a full ceremony build or extended customisation.

The ceremony:

  • Includes the required legal wording (monitum)

  • Covers all legal requirements clearly and correctly

  • Is short and respectful in tone

  • Is non-religious and modern

  • Typically takes around 10–15 minutes

There is no storytelling or ceremony scripting beyond what is legally required. It’s straightforward, intentional, and professionally handled.

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What’s Included

Along with The Professionally Fabulous Standard (included in every ceremony), this package also includes:

  • A legally compliant marriage ceremony

  • Clear guidance through the Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM) process

  • Witness coordination on the day

  • Calm, professional delivery of the legal ceremony

  • Lodgement of marriage paperwork with 14 days after the ceremony

Everything is handled properly, so you don’t need to second-guess a thing.

Best Suited If You Want

  • A legally recognised marriage without a full ceremony

  • A simple, respectful, no-fuss approach

  • Clear guidance through the legal process

  • A short ceremony that feels calm and intentional

  • To be married at home, at a venue, or as part of a small gathering

This option is especially popular with:

  • Couples planning a larger celebration later

  • Couples eloping overseas or marrying privately

  • Couples who want the legal part handled cleanly and quietly

How We Will Work Together

Enquiry & Availability

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Initial Conversation

We talk through your plans, values, and what you want your ceremony to feel like.

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Legal Guidance

I guide you through the Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM) and all legal requirements.

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On The Day

I arrive early, coordinate quietly, and deliver your ceremony with confidence and care.

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Optional Add-On: Official Marriage Certificate

If you’d like, I can order your official marriage certificate on your behalf once your paperwork is lodged.

This saves you the extra step and ensures everything is submitted correctly, with the certificate sent directly to you.

+ $70

Inclusivity Is Standard

Gender-inclusive language is used throughout the ceremony. Same-sex, LGBTQIA+, and identity-diverse couples are genuinely welcomed and affirmed.

Every couple is treated with respect, clarity, and professionalism.

Location & Style

I Do, I Do ceremonies are conducted within 5km of the Melbourne CBD. For locations beyond this area, additional travel fees may apply.

This ceremony works well in private homes, garden settings, cafes, and other intimate locations. Wherever it takes place, the delivery is calm, discreet, and legally precise.

The Next Step

If you’re looking for a Melbourne celebrant to conduct a legal-only wedding ceremony that is calm, respectful, and handled properly, I Do, I Do may be exactly what you need.

There’s no pressure. Just a clear conversation to confirm availability and next steps.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Yes. While I Do, I Do is a legal-only ceremony, you are welcome to include short personal vows to each other.

  • No. The ceremony is non-religious and follows the legal wording required under Australian marriage law.

  • Typically around 10-15 minutes.

  • By Australian law, the Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM) must be lodged at least one month before the wedding date.

    For I Do, I Do legal-only ceremonies, it’s best to allow a minimum of five weeks from booking to ceremony to ensure all legal requirements are completed correctly. You’re welcome to book further in advance if you prefer.

  • Yes. You’re welcome to have a small number of guests attend. Two of these guests will need to act as your legal witnesses.

  • In Australia, the Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM) must be lodged at least one month before the wedding date. In limited circumstances, a shortening of time may be granted by an authorised authority (such as a prescribed court or medical practitioner), but this isn’t guaranteed and depends on your specific situation.

    If you’re hoping to be married within one month, get in touch as soon as possible. I can talk you through whether a shortening of time may be an option and what documentation would be required.

  • Yes. If you don’t have witnesses available, I can help arrange witnesses for your ceremony, provided this is organised in advance. Australian law requires two witnesses aged 18 or over, and I’ll ensure this requirement is met so everything is completed correctly and without stress.

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