SAYING “I DO” WITHOUT BREAKING THE BANK: HOW TO PLAN A WEDDING DURING A COST-OF-LIVING CRISIS
Your wedding day should celebrate love and commitment—not a source of financial stress. With the rising costs of living impacting everyday expenses, many couples are looking for creative ways to stay within budget while still having a beautiful, memorable wedding. The good news? With thoughtful planning and flexibility, you can have the wedding of your dreams without compromising on what matters most.
From choosing nontraditional venues to embracing smaller guest lists, here’s a guide to planning a fabulous wedding that’s uniquely yours—even when the economy throws a few curveballs!
WHY COST-EFFECTIVE WEDDINGS ARE TRENDING
More couples are embracing budget-friendly weddings, not just out of necessity but as an opportunity to redefine what makes a wedding special. Rather than focusing on extravagant spending, couples prioritise meaningful details and intimate experiences that reflect their love story. Planning a wedding during a cost-of-living crisis is about making intentional choices and being resourceful while still having a day that’s full of joy, style, and personality.
1. RETHINK THE VENUE: THINK LOCAL, NON-TRADITIONAL, AND PERSONAL
The venue is often the most significant wedding expense, but it doesn’t have to be! Consider venues that offer charm and character without the hefty price tag. Here are some creative ideas:
Local Community Halls or Art Galleries: These spaces are versatile, cost-effective, and often offer a blank canvas for decorating.
Public Parks or Gardens: With a small permit fee, you can transform a local park into a romantic outdoor setting.
Backyard Weddings: Whether it’s your family home or a friend’s lovely garden, backyard weddings are budget-friendly and incredibly personal.
TEDDY’S TIP:
“Consider unconventional locations like a favourite café, rooftop, or beach picnic! Non-traditional venues can be dressed beautifully with creative touches and DIY décor. Plus, you’ll have a truly one-of-a-kind setting!”
2. EMBRACE THE BEAUTY OF MICRO-WEDDINGS AND ELOPEMENTS
Micro-weddings and elopements are more than just a cost-saving measure—they’re a chance to create a day that’s intimate, meaningful, and focused on the people who matter most. With fewer guests, you can direct your budget toward what’s most important to you, such as quality food, professional photography, or a unique venue.
BENEFITS OF MICRO-WEDDINGS AND ELOPEMENTS:
Flexibility with the Budget: With fewer guests, you can spend more on the details that mean the most to you—a stunning dress, live music, or a special meal.
More Personal Time with Guests: Smaller gatherings allow you to connect with each guest, making the day more personal and memorable.
Less Stress, More Joy: A simplified guest list means less logistical planning and more time to enjoy the day.
TEDDY’S TAKE:
“A cost Airbnb by the beach is perfect for a micro-wedding—just the couple and their closest family. Spend the evening sharing stories and toasting to love. It is intimate, special, and stress-free!”
3. GET CREATIVE WITH WEDDING ATTIRE: LOOK FOR AFFORDABLE AND ETHICAL OPTIONS
When it comes to wedding attire, there are plenty of ways to save while still looking your absolute best. Consider options that are budget-friendly and support sustainable and inclusive practices.
AFFORDABLE ATTIRE IDEAS:
Consider Second-Hand or Sample Sales: Many bridal boutiques and online platforms offer gently used or sample dresses at a fraction of the cost.
Rent or Borrow: Renting a dress or suit is becoming increasingly popular, especially for couples who don’t want to spend big on an outfit they’ll only wear once.
Shop Local Designers or LGBTQIA+ Inclusive Brands: Support local designers or LGBTQIA+ inclusive brands that offer beautiful, custom options without the markup of larger bridal shops.
TEDDY’S TIP:
”Opt for custom suits from a local LGBTQIA+ designer. Not only do they save money, but you’ll also get to work with someone who truly understands your vision—creating outfits that feel authentic and uniquely ‘you.”
4. PERSONALISE WITH DIY DETAILS THAT SPEAK TO YOUR STORY
DIY elements can add a lot of heart and soul to your wedding day without draining your wallet. From handmade invitations to DIY décor, endless ways exist to personalise your celebration while keeping costs down.
DIY IDEAS TO CONSIDER:
Handmade Invitations and Place Cards: Create digital or handmade invitations to save on printing and postage costs.
Personalised Favours and Gifts: Consider making small items like candles, baked goods, or plant cuttings as favours for your guests.
Home-Grown or Foraged Flowers and Greenery: Use home-grown or foraged greenery to create beautiful, eco-friendly arrangements and décor pieces.
TEDDY’S TIP:
“Get your friends and family involved in DIY projects! It’s a wonderful way to create meaningful memories before the big day and adds a personal touch to your celebration.”
5. LIMIT THE GUEST LIST (AND FOCUS ON QUALITY TIME)
The guest list is one of the most significant factors impacting your wedding budget. By keeping it intimate, you can reduce costs for catering, seating, and even the venue size. Think about who you genuinely want to share your day with—those who have been a significant part of your journey.
BENEFITS OF A SMALLER GUEST LIST:
Reduced Catering and Venue Costs: Fewer guests mean you’ll spend less on food and drink, seating, and tableware.
A More Relaxed Atmosphere: Smaller groups create a more relaxed and personal atmosphere, making it easier to connect with everyone.
PRO TIP:
Consider a two-part celebration! Have an intimate ceremony with your closest loved ones, followed by a more significant casual celebration or party at a later date.
6. SKIP THE TRADITIONAL SIT-DOWN DINNER: GET CREATIVE WITH CATERING
Catering is another area where you can save significantly. Instead of a formal sit-down dinner, consider alternative options that offer delicious food and a relaxed vibe:
Cocktail-Style Reception: Serve a selection of small bites, canapés, or grazing platters that encourage mingling and movement.
Brunch or Afternoon Tea: Host a morning or midday celebration with light refreshments, pastries, and a coffee bar.
Food Truck or Backyard BBQ: Keep it casual with a food truck or backyard barbecue for a fun, relaxed vibe.
TEDDY’S TAKE:
“Consider a backyard brunch reception with homemade quiches and fresh pastries. The relaxed atmosphere will make it feel like a big family breakfast—warm, welcoming, and unforgettable!”
7. SIMPLIFY THE DÉCOR AND FOCUS ON STATEMENT PIECES
You don’t need to go overboard on décor to create a beautiful atmosphere. Instead of decorating every inch of your venue, focus on key areas that will make the most significant impact.
DÉCOR IDEAS TO SAVE MONEY:
Use Fairy Lights and Candles: Create a magical atmosphere with string lights, candles, and lanterns.
Borrow or Repurpose Items: Use items you own or borrow from friends to add a personal touch.
Opt for Seasonal and Local Flowers: Choose flowers that are in season and grown locally to reduce costs.
8. MAKE THE MOST OF YOUR NETWORK AND RESOURCES
Sometimes, the best resources are right in front of you. Whether asking a friend with photography skills to capture the day or borrowing décor items from a recently married friend, tapping into your network can save money and make your day even more meaningful.
IDEAS FOR UTILISING YOUR NETWORK:
Friends as Musicians or DJs: Do you know someone musically inclined? Ask them to perform during your ceremony or reception.
Borrow Items from Recently Married Couples: Many couples have items they’d love to share, from decorations to glassware!
TEDDY’S TIP:
“Your wedding should celebrate community and love, so don’t be afraid to ask for help or support. It’s amazing how many people want to be part of your special day!”
FINAL THOUGHTS: CREATING A BEAUTIFUL WEDDING WITHOUT BREAKING THE BANK
Planning a wedding during a cost-of-living crisis doesn’t have to mean compromising on style or meaning. With creativity, flexibility, and a little help from your loved ones, you can create a day that’s uniquely yours—one that reflects your love, values, and commitment. Focus on what’s most important, and let go of the pressure to meet unrealistic expectations. After all, your wedding day is about celebrating your love and partnership, no matter the budget.
Ready to make your dream wedding a reality? At Married By A Teddy, we’re here to help you create a modern, unique, and budget-friendly ceremony that’s all about you. Get in touch today.